Family+Role

In my family I think i have the second most important role. I am the peacemaker, the organizer, and the head of the crowd. In my house I don't have a set chores but I do whatever needs to be improved upon. I usually solve conflict with my brother and our cousin,Colleen. Colleen is over at our house most of the week and they are always in conflict. I'm usually the peace maker of their little misfits, which also makes me, the bad guy.Like last night. My brother and her were fighting over who gets the last of the chocolate milk (yes i know so cliche of them) when I had to step in. I have to ask myself, Who deserves the last of the milk? Should I just take it? But of course whatever my decision, I'm not being fair to someone. Because my mom doesn't have alot of free time, I do alot of organizing for her. Things such as, when and where someone is spending time at friends house or planning out if my brother can go to boy scouts or if i have time to go to art club.I'm constantly faced with questions like "Who will pick me up?" "Will my brother be alone at the house?" and " How long can I stay?" Even though I have much more responsibility than my brother I have much more freedom too.